Wherever you're at in life good or bad you can always make it better then it is one step at a time, the first step is decide that you want something better then you currently have. Why? Because it wont get any better unless you first make the decision that you want it to be better, making the decision will commit you to see it through.
Where do you see yourself five years from now? Where would you like to be? Where do you want to live and what do you want to be doing for a living? Who do you want to share your life with? What do you want to drive home every day?
These are all questions you need to ask yourself and you need to have answers to them, because if you don't know, then it's time you really think about what you want in your in your heart of hearts.
What resonates with you on a deep level? What's most important to you? That one thing you would want to do if there was to be no tomorrow, would you want to have achieved in your lifetime? Put that thing on the top of your list as being the most important thing to you.
Now back to the questions and take some time to think about them all. one at a time, then sit down write about them until you come up with answers to all of them.
Five years from now do you see yourself living in the country side or the city? In a big house or a small house? Do you have a high paying career? Or a home business you run yourself? What kind of a person do you see yourself sharing your life with?
Once you clearly defined what it is that you want and are working towards it you will need to work on making some changes (make small changes) A good place to start is with your beliefs, you will need positive beliefs to support you and if you have powerful beliefs that will see where you want to go.
Next you will want to work on your daily habits and you will want to slowly release and replace your old limiting habits with new self & lifestyle empowering habits.
By this time you know what you want and where you want to be and whom you want to share it all with and what "job" you want to work. Figure out what new empowering habits and positive new beliefs you want to support you along the way.
So the last thing you need to ask yourself is, how will the person you want to be, think and act? Will the person you want to become see problems as temporary set backs? Will you look for something positive in every negative thing?
What about confidence. Is the future you a confident person knowing that you will have want you even if you have set backs along the way?
Some times people want to see someone from the past again to show them what they have accomplished since they last saw each other. Have you ever thought about hanging out with an older friend, just to see where you both have gotten in life? How about showing someone from your past that never thought you would get your dream life?
How would it feel to show those same people that never believed in you what you've accomplished? Really think about, what would you say and how would you act? Think about the YOU of the future knowing all you want to accomplished and achieve think about how you would act and think.
Start thinking and acting like the person you want to be tomorrow only be it now,today, because the only way to have it / be it, is to act it and think and do it all today. Because the truth of the matter is that you really already are the person of tomorrow. You just haven't started acting or thinking like the person you wish to be.
Once you have done that half of the work is already done for you and it brings you that much closer to having all that you desire. So once again I will run over the steps so you can write them down and practice to every day.
Below I have given you some steps to take to put you in the future YOU mind set.
1. Figure out where you want to be a year or more and what you want to be doing and what kind of a person you want to share your life with.
2. Figure out what you want to accomplish in a years time and work towards it a little bit at a time every day.
3. Get new positive beliefs and habits and work every day to slowly replace the old ones with the new ones.
4. How would the future you act and think? act and think the way you feel you will act and think.
Asking all of these questions of yourself one at a time will have your mind searching for answers to these questions, because that is what your mind does automatically whenever asked a question that it doesn't have the answer for. It searches until it has an answer for you.
How do you feel that person you want to become will act and think, however you feel you will be, start acting & thinking that way from now on. Let us say that the person you wish to become stands up straight and walks with an air of confidence, high self esteem and is always cheerful and smiles.
Then be that way now, because it will set that positive habit for your subconscious mind and pretty soon that is what you will do everyday automatically, without your thinking about doing it.ask yourself the question and always trust your intuition to give you the right answers and go with them.